Meet the Readmillers

Books

I love Readmill so much, so when Matthew told me about doing a Meet the Readmillers post with me, I WAS THRILLED.

Matthew, an awesome writer by the way, is Readmill‘s Community Manager.

For the longest time, books have been a way for us to escape. They transform monotonous travel and free time into journeys. They’re always with us, filling up our bags and electronic devices. In essence, they keep us company. We have a companion in a book, and our fondness of them can grow over time – especially if we find ourselves alone.

Readmill has helped transform the average book into something that keeps Kenna company in a grander way, as well as spurring her on to read more. “Ultimately, I find myself reading more out of my comfort zone with Readmill. I browse through other people’s highlights and see if there’s anything I like.” Kenna says that she feels for the people that can’t read every book they wish for — much like her own childhood — and is inspired to share her blessings.

Read the whole post here.

Here are other Readmillers if you’re interested, Grace Athayde and Manik Rathee.

HTML and CSS Basics

Books / Programming

Here are some tools and sites where you can learn and try HTML and CSS, for designing your own websites or just for learning something new. This post has been long overdue, sorry Didi.

There are a lot of tutorials and tools in the internet but here are my favorites.

Blogs/Websites

Lissa Explains it All! – This helped me a lot! It’s a site which aims to teach people, especially children, how to make their own websites. I learned almost everything here, the basics.
Don’t Fear the Internet – You can watch short tutorial videos where you’ll learn to manipulate the CSS of a basic wordpress blog, it’s HTML, and PHP.
HTML 5 Rocks – a Google site for everything HTML5
Web Design Ledger – Tutorials, freebies, inspiration on web design.
Smashing Magazine – a site/communicty for web designers and developers, from n00bs to professionals.
Line 25 – Tutorials, freebies, inspiration on web design
CSS Tricks – CSS tricks.

Tools

Cupcake Ipsum – Loren Ipsum generator with a twist.
Border Radius – round corner CSS generator
Tekzr – a coding app

Another good way to know about HTML and CSS is by reading books. A Book Apart “publishes highly detailed and meticulously edited examinations of single topics”.

The three books shown in the picture above are up for grabs until February 15, 2012 at Mensis Liber. Click here to join.

I’m Proud of My Life

Personal

I just realized something this morning. Though I really like my job, I don’t or should I say, I won’t keep on doing it until I’m 50, even better if I don’t need to keep it until 35 or 40, I’m working on that.

I just realized that the system will never work for me. It will keep me fed, dressed and sheltered, but that’s it. Until I’ve saved enough money, or until such time I can no longer stomach bureacracy, politcs and pesonal bullshit, until VPs and CEOs stop getting paid as much as they’re now getting, and until the time I can still keep my mouth shut and brush my shoulder off on things such as people who kiss butt to get ahead, I’m staying. I have no problem if CEOs and all top management gets paid high, I do have a problem when those who really work hard, don’t.

It’s not a pretty sight, and you can only take it for a period of time.

I look forward to living a life on an island or a farm and just getting busy, living.

Now if only all corporate powermen will care more about others than themselves, maybe there’s still hope for the world. I’d like to think all people are born good and meant to do good.

Seriously, I’d rather live a life away from the conveniences of the city, and I’d exchange everything I have to be able to live a life where people care more about caring for someone else than themselves, because such a thing is beautiful.

When you walk by a group of quote-unquote normal people you chuckle to yourself, patting yourself on the back as you scoff. It’s the same superiority complex shared by the high school jocks who made your life a living hell, makes you a slave to the competitive capitalist dogma you spend every moment of your waking life BITCHING about!

Cause I’m proud of my life and the things that I have done, proud of myself and the loner I’ve become. You’re free to whine. It will not get you far. I do just fine, my car and my guitar, proud of my life and the things that I have done, proud of myself and the loner I’ve become. You’re free to whine. It will not get you far. I do just fine, my car and my guitar.

Admit it! by Say Anything

Maybe I should work on my fishing skills more, it will help me get food. Eat what you catch.

You Decide

Lists

Fate controls who walks into your life. You decide who you let walk out, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go. Unknown

Professional vs Personal

Separating professional from personal relationships is difficult. It’s important to set boundaries for both.

Things that may help

  • Never discuss work at home. Or anywhere if you’re outside the office, unless it’s an out-of-office meeting, I guess.
  • Roommate is not always equal to friend. But it helps if you’re really good friends with your roommate.
  • Maturity and Understanding. I don’t really like living with someone. I tried living with my best friends before, we had our fights, but we were able to move past it because we were really good friends, but now I try not to live with anyone. My best friend told me that living with someone takes maturity and understanding from both sides and I can be the one to start it. I think I’m too stubborn to care.
  • You have to be open to her and allow her to be open to you. You can’t expect her to change if you’re not telling her what it is that bothers you. And if you don’t tell her, you can’t get mad at her. Get mad at yourself for not being mature enough to communicate. It doesn’t mean fight about it, I mean … communicate. It helps if you can keep emotions at bay. So it’s less personal. More professional.
  • Don’t analyze too much. “You give and expect too much.” I didn’t realize this until my bestfriend told me about it. And actually he is right. It’s not that I expect to get rewarded or something in return. I expect people to be how I am and that cannot be the case for everything. I expect people to understand and know things without me telling them. And I have a big problem in communicating. Everything that’s going on around me just eats me up.
  • Man up. I must stay strong and quit being an annoying whiner. Nobody likes it.

Who Are We?

Personal

Read Russel Brand’s “Big Brother isn’t watching you”  for The Guardian.

Below is an excerpt.

That state of deprivation though is, of course, the condition that many of those rioting endure as their unbending reality. No education, a weakened family unit, no money and no way of getting any. JD Sports is probably easier to desecrate if you can’t afford what’s in there and the few poorly paid jobs there are taken. Amidst the bleakness of this social landscape, squinting all the while in the glare of a culture that radiates ultraviolet consumerism and infrared celebrity. That daily, hourly, incessantly enforces the egregious, deceitful message that you are what you wear, what you drive, what you watch and what you watch it on, in livid, neon pixels. The only light in their lives comes from these luminous corporate messages. No wonder they have their fucking hoods up.

I found those protests exciting, yes, because I was young and a bit of a twerp but also, I suppose, because there was a void in me. A lack of direction, a sense that I was not invested in the dominant culture, that government existed not to look after the interests of the people it was elected to represent but the big businesses that they were in bed with.

If we don’t want our young people to tear apart our communities then don’t let people in power tear apart the values that hold our communities together.

So What

Lists
“Sometimes people let the same problem make them miserable for years when they could just say, “So what.” “My mother didn’t love me.” So what. ”My husband won’t ball me. So what. ”I’m a success but I’m still alone.” So what. I don’t know how I made it through all the years before I learned how to do that trick. It took a long time for me to learn it, but once you do, you never forget.” Andy Warhol

1) No matter how young or old you are, you should be able to enjoy what you’re doing, if you can’t find any good reason to be doing it, let it go and move on.

2) Change is inevitable. People say time changes things, but come on, change won’t happen without you doing something. Accept and acknowledge, swim don’t sink.

3) If you want to be in someone’s life, be in it, doesn’t matter where you are or how, believe me, there are a thousand ways to do so.

4) It’s ok to cry and feel sad.

5) Help yourself before helping others, and let the people around you, help you.

6) Stressing over something? You know what can come out of it, only wrinkles and sleepless nights. So don’t be afraid, again, let people in and take time to think things through. When setting goals, I find no harm in taking it a bit higher more than the usual, it makes you thrive harder, when you reach it, it’s going to be awesome, if you don’t, well sometimes it’s the journey itself that’s more meaningful. When I was having second thoughts of leaving home, I asked my best friend for advice and he told me that for him, living alone in a foreign land for the first time is reason enough for him to take it.

7) Know your strengths and take advantage of them, but never take advantage of other people.

8) It’s ok to be alone.

9) Realize this, it’s not a race.

10) Don’t compare yourself to anyone and let that be your limit. In fact, don’t limit yourself at all.